Your Reputation (FC)

Different people have different views. There will be times when you view your actions one way and other see them as something totally different. Or moments when you see people's actions as one thing and they describe their actions as meaning the total opposite. This misunderstanding can really tarnish an individual's reputation. This is why when I don't understand a person's actions or have a problem with them I pull that individual aside and tell them how I feel about their actions. I don't bring them up in discussions with other people and leave a bad taste of that individual in other people's mouths. By opening my mouth to other people about that person I would be tarnishing their reputation and giving others a negative impression of that individual. Sometimes it is unnecessary to have an intervention with someone, and much simpler, respectful and effective to try having a one on one with them first.